Single. Why Me!?

I'm not used to being single. I've only had 2 boyfriends after all, one was 2 and a half years, and the other was a month. I can't take being alone. I feel used from the last relationship. I gave and gave and never received back what I put into it. The worst part of all that was... He said he DIDN'T use me. Okay, let's look at the facts, and you may decipher from that...

• I used MY birthday money to buy HIM something.
• For HIS birthday, I bought him expensive gloves, which I researched before-hand for 2 hours.
• I walked alone on a "death" highway just to buy him a snack, which then he called me an "idiot" for doing so.
• He embarrassed me in front of my friends when I asked him for a hug he then said "No, I think you should hang out with your friends" then he shut the door in my face and never answered it again, that day.
• He got angry at me for texting in his home, while we were playing a board game, when he called me and was playing videogames at the same time, so everything I said he never heard.
• When we were about to break-up the 2nd time, he said we wouldn't get along when we were older, and then proceeded to say that his ex was perfect for him.
• When we broke-up the final time, he got very annoyed at me when I was texting him NICE things, and told me I was bugging him too much, and that everything he did, he couldn't go an hour without getting a text from me...

What are your thoughts on this?! Do you think he used me?

I feel like I failed at everything I did for him. ):

I want a new boyfriend (asian) that will give just as much as he takes.